Saturday, January 31, 2009

Resolution New You #30 - Date your spouse!

The honeymoon doesn't have to be over.  We just have to TRY harder and get creative to bring the romance back to the surface.  So the last resolution in January 2009, is to plan a date with your spouse.  Pretend like they are your boyfriend or girlfriend again and not the person who is supposed to deal with you.  

For instance:  ladies, if you were dating, would you let your guy see you wearing sweats and t-shirts all day while sitting in front of the computer?  When he went to give you a kiss, did you turn your head so he can kiss your cheek, just so you didn't have to stop what you were doing on the computer.  Or men, do you seriously think she would have married you if you burped and farted as much as you do now.  Seriously, take it out of her area. 
I don't know why, but many of us take advantage that the other will always be there.  And we don't make them feel "special",  like we did when we dated.  
February's blogs focus is 30 days of...GREAT DATES.  I hope you stay tuned and actually arrange special dates for your spouse throughout the year.  Also for the wives and want-to-be wives, pick up the book, The proper care and feeding of husbands, by Dr. Laura.   I believe this book should be a requirement in schools and any woman who embraces the general concept of the book, will unleash the power and qualities we women possess.   
You can win a FREE copy of this book.  Simply comment below, and post a special date you arranged for your significant other.  At the end of the month, readers will vote.  If your date gets the highest vote, you will win!


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